The Drawer · Recruiting
College recruiting, honestly.
No services to sell. No D1 fantasies. The recruiting process as it actually works, sport by sport and level by level. Written by a Division III head coach with two decades of recruiting experience.
By sport
The recruiting infrastructure, sport by sport.
Baseball
Baseball Recruiting: What Parents Actually Need to Know
The honest version of college baseball recruiting, by level. For parents whose kid is hearing 'next level' from travel coaches and showcase organizers.
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Basketball
Basketball Recruiting: What Parents Actually Need to Know
The honest version of college basketball recruiting, by level. For parents whose kid is hearing 'next level' from AAU coaches, high-school assistants, and trainers.
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Cross country
Cross Country Recruiting Guide: What Parents and Athletes Need to Know
How college cross country and distance running recruiting works, what times coaches care about at each division level, and how to build a profile that gets a response.
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Football — Tackle
Football Recruiting: What Parents Actually Need to Know
The honest version of college football recruiting, by level. Read this if your kid plays high school football and people are starting to talk about 'the next level.'
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Hockey
Hockey Recruiting: What Parents Actually Need to Know
The honest version of college hockey recruiting, by level. Why the path runs through juniors, what the USHL and NTDP mean, and the brutal scholarship math at D1.
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Lacrosse — Boys · Lacrosse — Girls
Lacrosse Recruiting: What Parents Actually Need to Know
The honest version of college lacrosse recruiting, by level. For parents whose kid plays travel ball and is hearing about NLF, top recruits lists, and verbal commits.
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Soccer
Soccer Recruiting: What Parents Actually Need to Know
The honest version of college soccer recruiting, by level. For parents whose kid plays club soccer and is hearing about ID camps and ECNL exposure.
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Softball
Softball Recruiting: What Parents Actually Need to Know
The honest version of college softball recruiting, by level. For parents whose kid plays travel ball and is hearing about exposure tournaments and 'the showcase summer.'
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Tennis
Tennis Recruiting Guide: What Parents and Athletes Need to Know
How college tennis recruiting works, the role of UTR ratings in the process, what division-level programs look for, and how to contact coaches the right way.
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Track and field
Track and Field Recruiting Guide: What Parents and Athletes Need to Know
How college track and field recruiting works across throwing, jumping, sprinting, and distance events. What marks coaches need to see, when to reach out, and what division programs look like.
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Volleyball
Volleyball Recruiting: What Parents Actually Need to Know
The honest version of college volleyball recruiting, by level. For parents whose kid plays club volleyball and is hearing about national qualifiers and verbal commits.
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wrestling
Wrestling Recruiting Guide: What Parents and Athletes Need to Know
How college wrestling recruiting works, when coaches start watching, what roster spots look like at each division level, and how to put together a recruiting profile that gets attention.
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Timeline by grade
When things actually happen, by 8th through 12th grade.
- College Recruiting Timeline by Grade
What to do in 8th grade, freshman year, sophomore year, junior year, and senior year. A clear, grade-by-grade breakdown of the recruiting process.
- When Should You Start the College Recruiting Process?
Most families start too late or too early. Here's the honest answer by division and sport, and what to actually do in each phase.
- Recruiting timeline by grade (8th through 12th)
What actually happens when. The grade-by-grade calendar of recruiting milestones for HS athletes pursuing college sports.
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NCAA Eligibility
Eligibility Center registration, core courses, GPA, test scores.
- The NCAA Eligibility Center: what to do, when
Eligibility Center registration, core courses, GPA, test scores. The compliance side of recruiting that breaks athletes who ignore it.
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Talking to coaches
Email, phone, social media. The do's, the don'ts, the cringe stories.
- How to Email a College Coach
The introductory email is the first impression. Here's what to include, what kills the email immediately, and the format coaches actually respond to.
- Social Media for Recruiting: Twitter, Instagram, and What Not to Post
How to use social media to get recruited without making it weird. The bio template, the platform rules, and the cringe stories that will make sure your kid never makes them.
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NIL basics
Name, Image, Likeness for high schoolers. State-by-state reality.
- NIL basics for high schoolers
Name, Image, Likeness for HS athletes. State-by-state legal status, what it actually pays, and the eligibility-killing mistakes to avoid.
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Verbal commits
What "verbal commit" actually means and what it doesn't.
- The Official Visit: What to Expect
An official visit is a 48-hour window that college programs use to close recruits. Here's what actually happens and how to help your kid evaluate the visit honestly.
- Official Visit vs. Unofficial Visit: What Parents Need to Know
The difference between official and unofficial college visits, what each one costs, what NCAA rules govern them, and how to use each type of visit effectively in the recruiting process.
- What verbal commits actually mean (and don't)
Non-binding promise. Either side can break it. Here's the honest read on verbal commits, signing day, and the gap between the two.
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ID camps & showcases
Which ones matter, when, for which sports.
- Recruiting Film: What College Coaches Actually Watch
Most recruiting highlight reels are built for parents. College coaches want something different. Here's what they're actually looking for in film.
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Walk-on path
Real walk-on numbers by sport and division.
- Walk-On Opportunities Explained: What Parents Need to Know
What walk-on opportunities actually look like, the difference between a preferred walk-on and a tryout walk-on, and how to pursue a spot without burning bridges.
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Academics & GPA
The variable that matters more than every showcase combined.
- Academic Requirements for College Athletes
NCAA eligibility has specific course and GPA requirements that catch families off guard. Here's what to know and when to check so nothing blocks your kid's path.
- Sports scholarships: the honest math
What percentage of high school athletes actually get college sports scholarships? The real numbers, by sport, by division. Plus the academic-aid math most families miss.
A note on the byline
These pieces are written by a Division III head coach with two decades of recruiting experience. Published for parents, not for sale. Email parentcoachplaybook@gmail.com with corrections, questions, or requests for sport pages we haven't written yet.